To the FPMT Board of Directors
Update: The petition has been successful, the external safeguarding audit is complete, and the audit has been made public. The FPMT did what the petition requested. For details see Fact-finding results in response to multiple allegations of sexual misconduct by Dagri Rinpoche
Dear friends in the Dharma:
We are a group of senior nuns who are deeply concerned by the recent allegations of sexual misconduct by Dagri Rinpoche, who has been teaching for many years in FPMT centers and elsewhere. An Indian woman has filed a report testifying that she was molested by him on a flight from Delhi to Kangra on May 3, and has reported this incident to the police, resulting in his arrest. Another woman—Jakaira Perez Valdivia—posted a video on Youtube in which she reports that Dagri Rinpoche molested her 10 years ago when she was a nun living in Dharamsala. Ms. Valdivia asserts that there are other victims, some of whom have so far remained silent. Recently a woman in Korea posted on Facebook an account of Dagri Rinpoche molesting her in Dharamsala. Some of us personally know other western nuns who have reported that they were molested by Dagri Rinpoche.
These stories have been widely disseminated over the past week on the internet, news sites, and social media, in many countries around the world. Sexual misconduct by teachers, especially teachers wearing Buddhist robes, can cause lasting trauma and other harmful consequences. Apart from the harm done to the victims of abuse, there is serious additional harm and breach of trust when Buddhist institutions appear to protect the abusers rather than the victims, and fail to offer help and protection to the victims. Such allegations have a harmful effect on the image of Buddhism, and can lead people to lose respect for Buddhism and Buddhist teachers in general. For these reasons, the recent allegations of sexual impropriety are a cause of great concern.
Therefore, we urge the FPMT to commission an independent, third-party investigation into these allegations, and to make the conclusions of this investigation public. This investigation should be conducted in such a way that plaintiffs and/or witnesses feel safe to come forward and tell their stories confidentially—and anonymously, if they so wish—and be listened to in an open, impartial, and sensitive way. They need assurance that they will not face denial, blame, criticism, and ostracism, as Ms. Valdivia experienced.
We know that Dagri Rinpoche has released a letter saying he is innocent of two of the allegations. However, multiple allegations have emerged, so an objective and impartial investigation of the charges is the only way to verify the facts of the matter in order that the truth can come to light and that trust can be fully restored, even if not in the individual teacher, at least in Buddhist institutions and the integrity of the Dharma. Without an independent investigation that confirms that sexual assault occurred, it is difficult to take decisive measures to hold perpetrators responsible and to prevent them from continuing to do harm. In the meantime, holding an independent investigation sends a clear message that this behavior will not be tolerated and there will be repercussions for perpetrators. This is crucial in order to ensure an environment in which students’ trust can be rebuilt.
The FPMT has done wonderful work in educating thousands of people all over the world in Dharma teachings and practices for many decades, and we truly hope that it will continue to do so far into the future, but this work needs to be done in accordance with Buddhist ethics, compassion, and non-harmfulness towards all beings.
Thank you for your kind attention
Jetsunma Tenzin Palmo
founder of Dongyu Gatsal Ling Nunnery, India
Bhikshuni Karma Lekshe Tsomo, PhD
Professor at the University of San Diego, USA, and founder of Sakyadhita International Association of Buddhist Women
Bhiksuni Jampa Tsedroen
PhD University of Hamburg, Germany
Bhikshuni Thubten Chodron
Abbess of Sravasti Abbey, USA
Bhikshuni Sangye Khadro
FPMT teacher, USA
Bhikshuni Tenzin Tsepal
FPMT teacher, USA
Geshema Kelsang Wangmo
Institute of Buddhist Dialectics, India
Ven. Lhundrup Damcho (Diana Finnegan) PhD,
University of Wisconsin-Madison, Dharmadatta Nuns’ Community
Venerable Tenzin Chogkyi
FPMT teacher, USA
Ghetzulma Carla Tzultrim Pemo Freccero, Italy
Ghetzulma Lucia Tenzin Ciotzo Bani, Italy
Venerable Tenzin Nordron, USA
Venerable Tenzin Yangchen, India
Venerable Ngawang Drolkar, Australia
Last updated by tenpel on May 19, 2019 at 1:08 am
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Updates
- Update December, 12, 2020 by TARA-SOS
- Update November, 14, 2020 by TARA-SOS
- Update November, 13, 2020 – FPMT update on the fact findings of the FaithTrust Institute
- Summary of Reports of Dagri Rinpoche Sexual Assault Allegations
November 9, 2020 - Update Dec. 20, 2019 – FPMT is providing a safe channel via Faith Trust
- November 16, 2019 Update by TARA-SOS
- Update Nov. 14, 2019 by International Office and FPMT Inc. Board of Directors
- Update September 22, 2019 by TARA-SOS
- Update June 08, 2019 by TARA-SOS
- Update May 26, 2019 by TARA-SOS
- Update May 17, 2019 by TARA-SOS
Related Sources
- Tibetan monk in eye of ‘MeToo’ storm – The Tribune (India)
- Prominent Tibetan lama accused of molestation by two women – Lion’s Roar
- Statutory Declaration by Jakaira Perez Valdivi
- Tibetan Lama Dagri Rinpoche Faces Me Too Allegations – Tibet Sun
- Second woman alleges molestation by Dagri Rinpoche – The Tibet Express
- Senior Tibetan Lama Faces Allegations of Assault – Tibetan Journal
- Hindi News Article containing allegations of groping by Dagri Rinpoche on an Air India Flight (Hindi)
Responses to the Accusations
- Allegations of Sexual Misconduct – Ven. Thubten Chodron (May 10, 2019)
- No Mud, No Lotus – Ven. Sangye Khadro continues the discussion of how to respond when our teachers are accused of misconduct. (May 11, 2019)
- Will the FPMT Stand by its Code of Ethics? – Joanne Clark (May 11, 2019)
- Lama Zopa Rinpoche’s Advice to Students of Dagri Rinpoche – FPMT (May 12, 2019)
- Statement by Dagri Rinpoche (May 12, 2019 | PDF from our German server)
- Response by Jakaira Perez Valdivia – Kunsang (May, 2019 | PDF from our German server)
- Witness Account of HHDL Office meeting by Karma Yeshe
- Statement by Sera Jey Tsawa Khangtsen (May 12, 2019 | PDF from our German server)
- Update Regarding Dagri Rinpoche – FPMT (May 14, 2019)
- Lama Zopa Rinpoche’s Additional Advice to Students of Dagri Rinpoche – FPMT (May 24, 2019)
- Further Update Regarding Dagri Rinpoche – FPMT (May 24, 2019)
- The FPMT’s Official Updates List: Updates Regarding Dagri Rinpoche – FPMT (May 24, 2019)
- Addressing current incidents in buddhist communities and self-responsibility – Miriam Anders (TransTibMed, May 29, 2019)